Mom loved me so much and missed me, me too missed her a lot. My elder sister took biology and younger sis took commerce so they stayed with her. So, she told me to go to bigger town (12 hrs far by train), her younger sister’s family for study. I loved math but in my town, none of the college had math for 11-12 grade. I passed 10th grade with distinction in math and science. We give her medicines on time n take care of her. Her treatment was going on, but in absence of my father, she doesn’t take care of herself but only look after us. As time passed, mom’s health was keep going down, her hearing also decreased, so she had to use hearing aid. Only 2 short visits in an year was not very much to share sorrows n matters with him. Her health was getting down slowly, she was alone and missing my papa, but being a mother she only wanted her kids to be stand on their in feet and make them independent. We were now old enough to help her in house work n groceries, so we sisters help her, but mom always tell us to do study and she will do all the work. When I was in 8th grade our house built and we moved in same town but 30 minutes far from grand parents house. She broke down, but for us she again gathered her strength, her treatment started ang she again living normal life…same schedule, our school, cooking, cleaning, washing dishes n clothes, bills, groceries…all of that… When I was in 3rd grade, she diagnosed with diabetes. She spent money very wisely n saved also so when papa come for visit, they can use that money to build our own house in town. She gave us very good up bringing inspite of papa’s limited monthly salary.
She worked in home, buy groceries, pay bills, helped us in school homework etc…She didn’t apply for any job, she thought that might make her neglect the kids n she will not able to give enough time to us. Now, papa was coming after 6 months to visit us for few weeks and goes again for next 6 months. So a mother’s reponsibilities dominated over a wife. Mom loved papa so much but a mother in her wanted bright future of her children. Father lived at his place where his job was and mom moved to my grand parents (mom side) town in their house. So mom decided to live separate from papa for sake of our education. As the area where my father get transfer was always at border states so most of the time it’s a forest and backward area with no schools. Her real struggle started when we grew to the school age. She was happy being a wife and mother, living her life, busy in house work n kids as typical married woman. But we came in this world she forgot her pain. The pregnancy period was very hard for her. It is says when a child borns thena mother borns too. Papa worked in government services where he had to transfer from one city to another every 3 – 4 years. At age of 25 she got married to my father. Everybody praised her because of her higher degree. At that time the families wasn’t letting girls get higher studies but my mom was the first one in her family who did Masters in Economics. She was not beautiful but was very intelligent in studies.
India….father had small business n mother was house wife, she had 2 sis n 3 bro. She born in a low middle class family of a small town in U.P.
Hi deariiiiiiieeess, this is Roma…Thanks to my lovely friends for encouraging me to write, I’m not taking any names here as in my heart all my friends have very special place…each of you very precious to me…I love u alllllll….I’m here with my very first story…which I want to dedicate and share with all of you my sweetheart friends…this is the story of my mom…my lovely Super MOM…
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